Friday, August 8, 2014

When we suffer the loss of someone close - part 1

• Jesus wept

At a veterans event a year ago in Leadville, Colorado, special tribute was paid to a Leadville native killed at age 19 in Fallujah, Iraq. Before the event NPR Saturday Edition very respectfully interviewed his father by phone at the father’s kitchen table. At one point the host asked whether his son had mentioned why he had joined the Marines. The father replied, “Felt he could make a difference. You know, he was killed December 16, 2006. I don’t know. Everybody says it should get easier, but it don’t.” [1]

When through death we have lost someone very dear to us, what word does the Gospel speak to us in our struggles and what practical counsel may be offered?

In part one we ask: when gnawing aloneness and aching grief have become our companions because of the death of someone close, what message does the Gospel bring? In John chapter 11, a grieving woman says to Jesus, “I believe that you are the Christ, the Son of God, who is coming into the world.” The surrounding passage gives the Gospel’s four-fold message to people like her who are beset with sorrow due to the death of someone near and dear.

• Jesus Christ, the Son of God, is deeply troubled by death (John 11:33).

In Bethany, two miles from Jerusalem, in the province of Judea, lived a man, Lazarus, and his two sisters, Mary and Martha. Jesus had such a close relationship with them that it was as if they were his very close biological brother and sisters. Lazarus became deathly sick and the sisters summoned Jesus. Two days later Jesus said to his disciples, “Let’s go to Judea.” “No, Rabbi [teacher],” they protested, “you don’t want to do that. The authorities will arrest you and then stone you to death.” Jesus replied in effect, “It’s part of my mission to do this. You’ll see.” When they come near Bethany, Martha goes out to meet them. The group goes on to the two sisters’ house where Mary her sister and other people are grieving. When Mary went outside to meet Jesus, other people followed her, and all came weeping. Seeing the scene, Jesus was “was deeply moved [could also be translated “was deeply angry”] in his spirit and greatly troubled” (John 11:33).

Why was Jesus deeply moved (or angry) and greatly troubled? He had publically taught on the trip he had just made to Jerusalem (John 10:7-10), “Truly, truly, I say to you, I am the door of the sheep. All who came before me are thieves and robbers, but the sheep did not listen to them. I am the door. If anyone enters by me, he will be saved and will go in and out and find pasture. The thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy. I came that they may have life and have it abundantly.” The mission of Jesus was to bring life to people. That is why he came. The death of people was profoundly troubling and contrary to his mission. When we face our own death or face the death of someone else, he feels our anguish and misgivings.

• Jesus Christ, the Son of God, wept (John 11:35).

Having become deeply moved and greatly troubled, Jesus asked the group outside Mary and Martha’s house, “Where did you bury him?” They replied, “Come and see.” Whereupon the Gospel text tersely states, “Jesus wept.” Again, we might ask, why? The immediate context explains (John 11:5), ”Now Jesus loved Martha and her sister and Lazarus.” In the context of the entire book, it’s important to remember that (1) the Father and Son are one in nature: Jesus had said, “Before Abraham was, I AM” (John 8:58) and “The Father and I are one” (John 10:30). And yet (2) they are distinct persons: “In your Law it is written that the testimony of two people is true. I am the one who bears witness about myself, and the Father who sent me bears witness about me” (John 8:17-18). As a result, the love of God (who is one) includes that of both the Father and the Son:

      “For God so loved the world that he gave his only Son” (John 3:16)
      (Jesus to the disciples:) “As the Father has loved me, so have I loved you (John 15:9).

Our sadness – whether we are dealing with the death of someone close to us or facing any other circumstance -- touches Jesus deeply. His compassion moved him to tears.

• Jesus Christ, the Son of God, is the resurrection and the life (John 11:25).

We need to back up in bit in the story to the point before which Jesus met Mary and the people with her. As Jesus was approaching Bethany, Lazarus had lain dead in the tomb for four days. And Martha, the other sister, had come out to meet him. This is the conversation that took place (John 11:23-27, quote):

Jesus said to her [Martha], “Your brother will rise again.” Martha said to him, “I know that he will rise again in the resurrection on the last day.” Jesus said to her, “I am the resurrection and the life. Whoever believes in me, though he die, yet shall he live, and everyone who lives and believes in me shall never die. Do you believe this?” She said to him, “Yes, Lord; I believe that you are the Christ, the Son of God, who is coming into the world.”

Martha then sent a message for Mary to come to meet Jesus and other people followed her. Then everybody went to the tomb of Lazarus. The tomb was a cave and Jesus said, “Roll away the stone.” Martha objected, “Lord, by this time there will be an odor, for he has been dead four days.” But, at Jesus’ insistence, they took away the stone to the opening of the tomb. After looking heavenward and praying, Jesus yelled, “Lazarus, come out.” Wrapped tightly in his grave clothes, he dead man walked out alive.

This miracle was meant to be a sign: Jesus the Christ (the Messiah), the Son of God, is the resurrection and the life. He not only gives spiritual life now to those who are spiritually dead because of sin, but he shows he has the power to resurrect to eternal life on the last day all those who believe in him. Although we are powerless over sin and death, he has the power to come to the rescue.

• Jesus Christ, the Son of God, died as the one for the many (John 11:50).

As was true for many of the people groups throughout the Mediterranean Sea at the time, the Jewish nation had no independence but was ruled by overlords appointed by Rome, along with Roman soldiers strategically stationed to enforce that rule. The little freedom the Jewish national authorities did have could be threatened by civil unrest. These authorities were aware of Jesus’ miracles. He had just publicly and unmistakably healed a blind man (John 9). Now he had publicly and unmistakably raised a man from the dead (John 11). He was positioned to garner followers who might cause unrest. So the authorities met in council and said (John 11:47-48), “What are we to do? For this man performs many signs. If we let him go on like this, everyone will believe in him, and the Romans will come and take away both our place and our nation.” In the give and take of the discussion, Caiaphas, the high priest that year declared (11:49-50), “You know nothing at all. Nor do you understand that it is better for you that one man should die for the people, not that the whole nation should perish.” The apostle John saw this as a unwitting prophetic utterance. Earlier in the Good Shepherd discourse, Jesus had said (11:14-18) using pastoral images from the everyday lives of his hearers:

“I am the good shepherd. I know my own and my own know me, just as the Father knows me and I know the Father; and I lay down my life for the sheep. And I have other sheep that are not of this fold [the Jewish nation]. I must bring them also, and they will listen to my voice. So there will be one flock, one shepherd. For this reason the Father loves me, because I lay down my life that I may take it up again. No one takes it from me, but I lay it down of my own accord. I have authority to lay it down, and I have authority to take it up again. This charge I have received from my Father.”

The upshot: Jesus will voluntarily die, the good shepherd (the one) for the sheep (the many). The sheep are not just from among the Jews but from all nations. After he voluntarily lays down his life, he will take it back again. The Gospel began with the eternal Word of God, who was with God and was God, becoming a human being, Jesus (John 1:1,14). John the Baptist saw him and declared to everyone standing there, “Look, there is the Lamb of God who takes away the sin of the world…. I saw the Spirit descend from heaven like a dove, and he remained on him” (John 1:29,32). Now Jesus will fulfill his mission: die on the cross as a sacrificial lamb, rise again in glory, and ascend to the Father as the risen Lord (John chapters 18-20).

In our loss of a loved one, at first all we may see is death. This was how it was with the disciples of Jesus at the cross. They had envisioned the Christ (the Messiah) as a conquering military hero come to free the Jewish nation from their Roman overlords. They had hoped things would work out differently, but it didn’t happen.

All the disciples saw was crucifixion, but what they did not see in Jesus' crucifixion is that God was submitting himself to and participating in a world where so much fails to work out the way we want or plan or expect. He doesn't stand aloof, accepting the results. God is not a spectator in heaven, untouched by suffering, pain and death. God enters our world of crucifixion and makes it a world of resurrection. [2]

As the risen Lord, he asks you and me the same question which he asked Martha, “Do you believe this?” If we do, we like Martha will answer, “Yes, Lord; I believe that you are the Christ, the Son of God, who is coming into the world.” And we will receive the comfort of the Gospel. (1) Jesus Christ, the Son of God, is troubled by death, including the death of those near and dear to us. (2) As the Eternal Word come as a human being, he feels the grief which we ourselves feel. (3) As the Christ (the Messiah), the Son of God, he himself is the resurrection and the life. (4) He died on the cross as the Lamb of God who takes away the sin of the world and who has been anointed with the Spirit. He rose again and was glorified in heavenly session with the Father. He now invites us to believe the Gospel and to trust in him for spiritual life and peace and joy in the present age and for eternal life and peace and joy in the age to come. At the last day there will be a resurrection and believers of all ages will be united forever in the presence of the living God – Father, Son, and Spirit.


[1] “Colorado Event Honors Iraq War Hero,” NPR Saturday Edition, August 31, 2013. http://www.npr.org/templates/story/story.php?storyId=217511142

[2] Scott Carney, “Death, Resurrection, and Carlton Fisk's World Series Home Run,” Christianity Today (web), August 5, 2014. http://www.christianitytoday.com/ct/2014/august-web-only/death-resurrection-and-carlton-fisks-world-series-homerun.html

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